I recently was invited to lunch with some great women. I was flattered to have been included since I had to bring my kids and they were all very "posh" individuals. At one point in the conversation, one of the women was talking about how busy she'd been all week performing musically with some of her music students at auditions. That's what she does. She sounded so exasperated with how busy her week had been, and it didn't sound fun to me. I commented that sometimes I think it's not such a bad thing to be a "dabbler" -- meaning that I know how to do lots of different things, but I'm never good enough at anything to be in high demand, so it's not really stressful. I've always described myself this way. Her reply surprised me, though, because it almost seemed like my comment had offended her, when in actuality I was trying to complement her by insinuating that I didn't have the skills she has, so no one is knocking down my door. She said...